If you ended up in the bedroom with this guy already, this point is useless, so just do your thing. But, if you haven’t slept together yet, and you have a feeling that this might be a reason for this trip, do think well about it. If you are not ready to touch this base just yet, make sure you let your partner know about it. It is best for both of you to know where you stand. Also, you will get to see whether he actually plans to spend time with you or looking for a way to get you in the sack. Speak openly about what you expect from this trip and don’t forget that effective interpersonal communication is the key to a long lasting and healthy relationship. If you see that he’s not honest about this trip and don’t feel trustworthy call it off immediately.